about our wedding list service
for a wedding gift list with style, start here…
You can set up a list with notonthehighstreet.com in a matter of minutes by clicking here. You can begin adding gifts immediately using our innovative list builder.
To save your list, you will then be asked to fill in your details (including the date of the wedding, names, addresses, password and so on). An email will then be sent to the address you provided in the form, to confirm your details and a consultant will be in touch to see if you need any help or advice in building your list.
You can choose any date for your list to open and be ready for your guests to start buying from, usually the same time as sending your invitations. If guests try to find your list and it isn't open yet a friendly message will keep them informed, so they know when to return and get shopping. Your list will then remain open for three months after your wedding. This flexible service gives you complete control over how you want your list to work.
more details on building your gift list
Now that you have saved your list, you can continue adding items to your wedding list simply by clicking on the ‘add to wedding list’ button on each product page. You can find inspiration from the categories in our weddings department.
Don’t worry about getting things exactly right at this stage as you can delete or change any items that aren’t right for you whenever you need to.
Don’t forget, if you feel overwhelmed by the huge amount of choice available on the website, we offer a Personal Consultant Service to help guide you through compiling a wedding list - simply click the link to contact a consultant on any wedding list page or call 0845 259 1359.
wedding gift list contributions
We are delighted to announce a wonderful new feature within our gift list service. Wedding gift list contributions allow your friends and family to contribute money towards your gift list, giving you the choice and freedom to purchase higher-priced items or gifts of your choice after your wedding day. This optional feature is easy to use for both you and your guests!
If you choose to enable wedding gift list contributions, your guests will clearly see the contributions icon when they search and view your list. They can contribute any amount up to £500, and the six highest-priced items from your list will be displayed so that your guest has an idea of what their generosity may go towards.
When someone makes a contribution, the funds will be added directly to your gift list account. To start shopping after your wedding, you simply need to ‘close your list’ and you can spend the contributions however you wish.
If you have further questions about wedding gift list contributions or any other part of our wedding service, please do not hesitate to get in touch. Simply click the link on any wedding list page to contact a consultant, or call us on 0845 259 1359.
telling your guests
We can supply you with specially designed gift list notification cards which you can include with your wedding invitations so that you can subtly let your guests know where you will be holding your list.
Guests can buy from a list in two ways; please note that they will need to provide an email address in order to place an order:
1. Online, at www.notonthehighstreet.com/weddings
2. By telephone 0845 259 1359 Monday to Friday 8am to 8pm and Saturday 10am to 5pm
delivery and peace of mind
Gifts are delivered straight to the couple's address. Please note that each individual order arrives on the doorstep directly from the small business who created, designed or selected it.
As we currently don't use a central warehouse or bulk manufacturer, we are unable to hold gifts or deliver gifts in one single delivery. We are one of the only services to dispatch a gift within days of it being paid for by your guest, saving you any additional waiting or worrying in the build up to your wedding. This unique wedding list model, makes notonthehighstreet.com one of the most secure gift lists around.
Unless an item is being specially made for you, delivery is normally within 3 to 5 working days, often much sooner. All of our lovely small businesses will send your gift to the address chosen by the recipient. Read more about notonthehighstreet.com delivery here Often gifts are gift wrapped (keep an eye out for the free gift wrap logo on the product pages) and the guest can write a message to accompany it.
keeping you informed
Once you've finished compiling your list, it's simply a matter of sitting back and waiting for your goodies to be chosen by your friends and family. Gifts can arrive before or after your wedding. You can choose how much you find out about gifts bought from your list. You have three options for what’s displayed on your view of the wedding list page:
1 .See what's been bought and by whom – for those who like to be fully in the know
2. See what's been bought but not by whom – for those who like a little mystery
3. Keep it a surprise – see what's left only; for those with the strongest willpower!
It’s up to you how you manage your list and how much you find out!
information for guests
If you’d like to buy a gift from a wedding list at notonthehighstreet.com, you can find the list simply by entering the surname of either bride or groom into the box on the wedding list homepage. You can also enter their email address.
The couple may have chosen to be made aware when a gift is purchased from their list, or they may have chosen to keep it as surprise. Either way, you’ll be offered the opportunity to write a message to accompany your gift when it arrives.
To order the gift, you can either buy directly from the online list once you've chosen, or call 0845 259 1359 and we'll take the order in person. You will need an email address in order to place your order, whether online or by phone.
Gifts which have not been personalised or specially ordered are normally returnable as long as you do so within eight weeks of ordering. Items may be exchanged or refunded but we are unable to offer a cash alternative.
Please ensure you contact a wedding list consultant before returning the items or requesting a refund, so that we can make sure you receive the service you require. Please do not return an item before discussing it with us. Thank you.
Please see our full Terms and Conditions to ensure you understand the scope and limitations of our wedding gift list service. By using this Site you agree to be bound by our Terms & Conditions. If you do not agree to these Terms & Conditions then please refrain from using the Site and Wedding List Service. See terms and conditions here.
We pride ourselves on excellent customer service, and want your notonthehighstreet.com wedding gift list service to be one of the most enjoyable aspects of planning your wedding! Nell and Merryn in the weddings team are always on hand if you have any questions about the service, setting up your list or what gorgeous items to choose:
By telephone 0845 259 1359 (or on 01 4319731 from within the Republic of Ireland) Monday to Friday 8am to 8pm and Saturday 10am to 5pm
Our weddings team are always on hand to help. Drop them an email at:
what our customers think
'We have been delighted with the service that you have given as well as the excellent quality of the items that our friends and family have bought from our wedding list, so thank you again for everything.'
'I just wanted to say how impressed I am with the speed of delivery, the friendliness in communication, the packaging used, and of course, the products themselves'
'I’ve been very impressed with your wedding list service and have been very happy with the personal level of interaction we have received – thank you'